So you just realized your job sucks

Most of us expect that our first job out of college won’t be our dream job… and that’s ok. But one day, a few years later, a lot of us look up and realize we aren’t heading in the direction we want & have no idea what to do about it. Most of us have …

So you just broke up

If you’re reading this, you might be asking yourself: how do I get over a breakup? I’ll be 100% honest with you – there’s no easy secret to painless & quick breakups. And anything you do that feels like one is just numbing out your emotions, not healing them. Which is ok sometimes in moderation, …

So you just moved to a new city

A common theme in a lot of my conversations with new clients is that they either just moved to a new city or are thinking about it. Whether the reason is your job, a romantic partner, or you’re just looking to reinvent yourself, most of us move to a brand new city in our 20s. …

Your adulting wake up call

One of the huge realizations of my 20s was how much I was holding myself back with my own thinking. It’s crazy to me now, but I used to tell myself that I never got what I wanted: the boys I had crushes on in high school never liked me back, the jobs I applied …

What to do when life is meh

Almost all of my clients are at the same place when they sign up for coaching: life looks great on paper but the truth is they just aren’t feeling it. Things aren’t quite right but they feel completely stuck and have no idea what to do about it. The best way to get unstuck and …

How to change the world

If you’re anything like me, the past 6 months have lit a fire in you to make a difference, get more politically active and involved in the causes you care about, and use your voice. This is an opportunity. There is a movement right now, and the way to sustain it is to join it. …

3 Ways to Overhaul Your (failed) Goals

How are those New Years resolutions going? Did you forget about them a few weeks back? Instead of beating yourself up, or giving up on the desire to be better altogether, let’s refocus. Here are 3 ways to look at your goals in a fresh way & get back on track: Don’t expect what works …

Why everyone gets stuck in their 20s

Something weird about being in your 20s is that it is the first time in your life when you don’t know what comes next. Your whole life up until now has been prescribed: school, college, internship, first job…. then one day you wake up and realize that you don’t have any idea what you should do next – because it’s entirely …

Hey there procrastinator

Are you procrastinating by reading this blog post about procrastination? This is why I love you & this is why we are friends. If you are like me, you have some kind of mental narrative about your procrastination that goes something like.. “why do I do this? I’m so lazy! why can’t I just get …

Positive thinking is NOT the answer

Ok, I know what you are thinking & I really do love positivity as much as the next life coach. But lately, both clients and friends have been apologizing to me for being negative and complaining when they were just sharing their honest thoughts and feelings with me. Why are we only allowed to share positive thoughts …